BDSM/Kink
I wish to start using sex toys during sex, but I’m ashamed to tell my partner. What should I do?
There is nothing to be shameful about. Understanding what you like and experiencing sex in a variety of different ways is a journey, and using sex toys is one of the many ways to spice things up. If you feel you should start using sex toys, you can ask your partner what they think about it and how they feel about it and discuss it before you make a final decision. It is quite unfortunate that there is a common misconception that wanting to use sex toys with a partner means that the sexual experience between the two isn't good enough. This is far from the truth, and one should not feel ashamed to discuss this with their partner.
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