BDSM/Kink
When is it safe to practice BDSM with a partner?
There are a few factors to consider when it comes to safety including trust and consent. This sexual practice involves a lot of open communication between two partners who trust each other. When a person is assured that no harm will come to them and everything that is being done between them is consensual, this kinky sex play can be fun and is a form of intimacy for some people. Here are some important points to keep in mind in case one is interested in trying out BDSM: – Get informed as much as you can about BDSM before trying it out. See which parts of it you are more into, and which parts of it you would rather not try. – Find a partner who is trustworthy and whom you feel safe with. Make sure that all limits and safe words are discussed. Open communication is important. Let the partner know what you find acceptable and unacceptable. – Discuss roughly how the scene will play out before it actually happens. This way, both partners have an idea of what is going to happen, while still leaving room for spontaneity. – Agree on a safe word that will be respected and used to stop the activities. – Make sure that any equipment and props used in play are safe and sterile to prevent any injuries or infections.
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