Orgasm

My boyfriend takes such a long time to ejaculate that it becomes physically painful when we're having sex. Should I stop or let him continue until he ejaculates?

First and foremost, try to be mindful about your facial expressions and what you are showing your partner. If you tell them or show them that you are impatient, you might create pressure on them which results in them taking even longer to ejaculate. Your boyfriend might be experiencing delayed ejaculation which could be a result of various things. Research suggests that it is highly unlikely that not ejaculating will create physical damage to your boyfriend, so it is important that you tell him that you are experiencing pain during intercourse so you can work on it together; a solution being visiting a sex therapist.